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Overcoming Scapegoating? Scapegoats Scapegoated by Scapegoaters…

What is scapegoating? Frightened people always have an index finger ready to aim at everyone except at the real causes of their woes. Cowardly, hiding between frail targets while thinking they are strong, they hatefully finger point from behind their laptop screens to sting at doers while procrastinating at wasting their time blaspheming and criticizing […]

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Shadow Work or Positive Thinking – Retrieve your soul’s lost parts

Meditating while ignoring the importance of shadow work is not enough. Without shadow work we are incomplete, after seeing our shadow we are whole. Many are ready to fly to unknown galaxies or retreat to a new earth to escape their shadows but who wants to do the work that interrupts the promised ecstatic state? […]

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Love Yourself Unconditionally

Love Yourself Unconditionally

We wait in straight lines for tickets. From airfares to concerts to paychecks to welfares to lotteries… we choose to queue on waiting lists. Some of us, of course jump ahead but the rest of us, do we ever choose where the end of the waiting list will lead? And, while we are straight lining, […]

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How to Educate Yourself Online for Free in 17 Places

Due to the fast evolution of technology, the way people are educated and learn is also changing fast. In the old days, getting a good education through the mainstream system like college was a must and rightly so. Since a college degree would more than likely guarantee a successful career or at least a job […]

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Do You Know That You’re Doing Better Than You Think?

There are days where everything goes wrong and even the smallest of things like dropping a pencil makes you want to breakdown. There are nights when nothing on the horizon seems aligned with your vision of how life should be. Those are times when you spend hours watching pedestrians stride confidently in the direction their […]

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How to Stop Worrying Over What People Think of You

One of the major problems that we as human beings suffer from, is that we place far too much emphasis upon being liked by others. We grow up listening to adults telling us that we have to harmoniously co-exist with opposites and respect everyone around us and that we should strive for the same in […]

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Self Reminders for When You Feel Like Giving Up

For many of us, there comes a time in our lives when everything starts to look bleak and pointless and even the smallest of actions hold no significance. During these dark days, which always defy logic, we feel like giving up and the temptation to do this becomes all the more intense. But, giving up […]

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How to Strengthen Your Willpower: 7 Boosters

Unless we are one of these “know it all” rather than “be humble” types, during the darkest times in life, we all need help to get through challenging moments; those silent pauses that make us think we are alone. We think that stacking up money, acquiring status or shaping the perfect curves, will make us […]

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Happiness how to know if the next job is for you

Happiness: How to Know if the Next Job is For You

Those of you who have had the privilege of job hunting will agree; job hunting isn’t as easy as it looks in the movies or is announced in mainstream media statistics. Looking for a new job often demands as much time as a full time job, and the paperwork required, the endless polite exchanges and […]

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age of aquarius

Age of Aquarius: What does it mean?

When does the Age of Aquarius start? According to ancient spiritual sources and esoteric science, every two thousand years a new constellation in the universe starts affecting evolution on Earth and time moves us backwards through the astrological signs into a new age. Mankind’s written history can be detected from the Age of Leo and […]

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Yoga and Meditation to Balance The Energy Centers

In order to experience changes in life and to feel sublime, stable and connected to others; we need to start making a difference from within. Along the human spine there are seven energy centers located at important branching points in our nervous system and according to yogis, working with these are the key to this […]

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Forgiveness of the Self and Others

Forgiveness of The Self and Others

Should I forgive others and me? Forgiveness of the pain, another snake bite of betrayal. A teaspoon full of venom inserted from behind the chest; the deceiving words you whispered as I was lying in your trust. Forgiving back stabbing to please your egoistic needs, a twisted version of love as you, flirting with enemies, […]

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Addiction: Relapse vs Conscious Choice

Again, you relapsed… addicted. After sobbing with guilt, regret and shame, you are face down on your knees, asking yourself: is addiction to blame for the conscious choice I have made? Spring arrived along with temptation. There are people sitting in the park sipping their toxins. Others are on terraces drinking their glasses of deception. […]

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How to Overcome Anxiety and Depression Naturally

Through your thoughts an emotion manifests – anxiety. A menacing sense of doom and gloom, in your mind you paint, an inability to cope with daily uncertainties, a fear of what the future holds because you think the world might end this second or the next. Under the stresses and routines of everyday life changes, […]

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Anger Management: How to Handle Uncontrollable Outbursts

Uncontrollable outbursts of anger can happen to anyone from time to time; it’s human nature, and given the range of violence and injustice raging throughout the world, sadly we are more susceptible to this emotional state than ever before. However, when it becomes out of control and unstoppable, anger becomes a destructive behavior, one that […]

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